When I go to a wedding, I'm thrilled to bask in the happiness of the event. The flowers, the dancing and the smiles on the couple's faces when they see each other down the aisle. Everything looks absolutely perfect. But, how much does it cost for a wedding day to be "perfect"? There is a trend starting where weddings are costing almost as much as a mortgage and couples are putting themselves in debt so their special day can be the best. This issue is important because a special day should not be so stressful. It should be a day of celebration, not a balance statement of 20,000 dollars.